Marriage is a nerve wrecking decision for both individuals, especially for a girl as she has to leave her home for that one person who will soon become her identity. Indian weddings are not all about a one day show off, Dhoom-Dhadaka, beautiful Make-up, adorning new dresses, wearing heavy jewellery, photo sessions. It’s the lifetime commitment where three words are never enough to show your love. A Happy married life needs strong bond between husband and wife. It is true if the person whom we love so much doesn’t respect our feeling nor relationship than it becomes difficult to live in that relationship. Hence, we are compiling few points to tell you if your beloved husband or would be better half loves you. Read out the article to know about the signs that will let you know whether your husband is serious about you or not.
1) He Asks For Your Opinion And Values it.
A happy marriage should create good progeny for the peace and prosperity between you and him. He is really serious if he asks for your opinion before starting anything new or making a movie plan with his friends or planning a trip with his colleagues. It simply means that your opinion does matter to him and he wants to act on your suggestions and you are the first one with whom is wants to share what is he going to do next.
2) He Makes You A Priority.
Loving someone wholeheartedly and giving them all one has is what a person do when he is serious about you. He makes you a priority. No matter how busy his day is, how occupied he is in meetings, he will find time to spend with you. It simply means he sees you as a bigger part of his life.
3) He Calls you For No Reason.
How do you feel when you develope feelings for someone? You want to be with them. No matter if he is not able to be physically there, he will do all the efforts to be there will you emotionally. He will call you more often to stay in touch with you and saying that i just thought of calling you as i want to hear your voice. Simple gestures speak louder, do notice.
4) He Gets Upset When He Doesn’t Hear From You The Whole Day.
Care comes automatically when we love someone. If you man loves you that means he cares for you and wants to ensure about your safety. Girls. Feel blessed that you have got a wise man who gets upset when he doesn’t hear from you whole day, who panics when you don’t reply to his texts or don’t receive or revert back to his calls.
5) He Loves Listening To You.
Have you ever got someone who says he likes to listen to you whatever you say whether its about sharing your childhood memories with him, talking about the things which you hate, telling about what your friend did to you, or what you eat, why were you upset and what makes you feel happy. Believe me, if he patiently listens to you and remember everything, he is serious for you. Don’t let him go.
6) If He Is A Real Genuine Self With You
This is one of the important point to know if your husband or would be partner is serious about you. He will not hide his true self to the person he love. He will let you meet the real him and willingly show his wierd habits, worst sides, fears, anxiety, dilemma knowing that you will cherish everything about him.
7) He Is Always There When You Need Him.
Troubles are a part of life and you are not an exception. Do trust a man who makes time for you to support you when you need him the most and wants to lay your head on his shoulders. He gives you advice whenever you feel lost and not getting anything and who skip his food to reach to you as you are feeling upset.
8) He Takes Care Of You When You’re Sick.
Love has magic. It feels like heaven to love a right person. You are not less than feeling the same emotion if the person you are going to marry or already engaged comes at your place listening you are sick. If you are not sure if your husband is serious for you, see how he behaves when you fall ill. He will not let you stay out of the bed and will prepare a tea for you when you complain of a headache.
9) He won’t force you to become physical
You want to get intimate with the person you love but that is not the case with your beloved husband if he is serious about you. He will give you time to get comfortable in his presence. He understands and respects your nervousness as it is not that easy and he totally values your point and doesn’t force you to make love without your consent.
If you can relate this so well. Then you are one of the luckiest girls to find a man of your dream. We must tell you that you are going to have a happy and healthy married life as you have got the best guy. Thank your stars and of course your mother in law for the values she has taught him who made him a gentleman.