Undoubtedly, marriage is one of the biggest decision of life which changes your whole life. More than a man, it is difficult for a woman to start a new life around new people whom she doesn’t know well. There are many expectations from a girl when she is going to get marry and start a new life with her spouse and in-laws as in India you don’t marry a person, you marry his whole family and it is considered that a girl represents her upbringing by the way she behaves. She is the only person who has to learn patience, tolerance, compromise, become more understandable, have to sacrifice and do adjustment at each and every phase. She is the only person who has to fight a constant battle with her own because no matter how bad or ill she is feeling, she has to do everything putting a fake smile on her face all the time.

Agreeing to the fact that marriage is necessary as we all need a partner who willingly put down his needs over our wishes but when you are going to get marry, keep in mind that marriage doesn’t allow you to sacrifice with your values and qualities. There are certain qualities that every woman should have. Read the article to know more as you are much more than a beautiful face, undying energy, or you are more than just a woman who kills her wishes to please her spouse and in-laws.

• Be financially stable

Be the woman who doesn’t need to ask for money from her partner whenever she wants and giving an explanation why she needs it. Be financially stable before getting hitched. Concentrate more on your career goals and work harder towards achieving it rather than fantasize about finding a partner with good package. It is very necessary so that a woman never feels helpless in her life.

• Follow your passions and dreams

Don’t let marriage become a hindrance between you and your passions. Give your passions one chance before truly giving upon them because you are married now. Follow your passions wholeheartedly as your interests and hobbies make you a happy person.

• Don’t sacrifice too much

Regardless of male and female, every individual has to sacrifice a bit in a husband-wife relationship and you willingly do for the happiness of your spouse but don’t overdo it as it will later affect your mental peace and being a woman you will be the only one who is expected to give up every time either required or not.

• Voice your opinion

Like man, a woman too got a healthy mind that works beautifully giving them the power to think and understand things in a different way. You are no way less than a man while making a decision. Don’t underestimate yourself, voice your opinions but in an appropriate manner. Keep yourself calm and composed when you are expressing your emotions and point of view. Words spoken in a kind way reached directly to heart in comparison to words utter in frustration.

• Be Confident

Because you are a woman, no one gives you the authority to feel less confident than male. Believe in on your qualities and abilities before anyone appreciates you for your traits. Lack of appreciation makes you an inferior person which is a big no. Make it a habit to appreciate your positives and work on weaknesses and negatives to diminish them. Be confident and fights the demon with a smile.

• Be brave

Be brave enough to make decisions who make you a successful and a good human being. Bravery doesn’t only mean doing heroic acts or saving the lives of people from danger alone, it is as simple as the risk of trying something new and unique. Stand if it means to stand alone if someone (or your spouse) is constantly putting you down or trying to abuse you in any manner either physically, mentally or emotionally.

• Cherish yourself

Nothing is more beautiful than cherish and love yourself first before you love someone else. Don’t think you don’t deserve your would be a partner as you are not good enough like him or he is far better than you. Accept yourself for who you are. Your flaws, positives, etc is what makes you unique and moreover, during the worst phase when everyone doesn’t think for a second to leave you putting his desires first, it will be you who is going to be there for your own self.