Marriage is a beautiful journey where you walk with your partner hand in hand making your married life an absolute heaven on earth. For a woman, marriage is much more than shifting to a new home along with her beau leaving the parental house to begin a new life. Expecting too much right after first wedding night is not what should look for. Compromising and sacrificing something keeping your partner’s happiness in mind is appreciable but let your marriage doesn’t become a hindrance in your personal well being and mental growth. There are few important points or advice for the woman who is going to begin her new phase of life that will make your marriage totally bliss.

• Your husband has right to know small things like your personal hygiene as well. He is your man and he should know about your periods or menstrual cramps so that he can cheer you up or pamper you when you are dealing with mood swings. Don’t complain if you don’t tell him.

• Don’t add your husband’s first name to your name, he is not your guardian. Adding surname is also your option. You are married to that person, not his slave. You have your own individuality and people know you by your name.

• Expecting a smooth sex life is not something you should consider. Let your sex life take off slowly. don’t expect too much too soon, you would experience some awkward and silly moments to laugh your heart out together.

• Loving someone and willingly give up your everything for that person is good but Make some important rules initially for a happy married life because the level of initial attraction and craving will make your hubby to accept your conditions which would make your living better and peaceful.

• Don’t rush for babies too soon. Accept it or not when you have a kid you become a servant of your own life. You have a responsibility on your shoulders for the upbringing of the kid to much extent that you don’t get time to spend with your partner.

• Talk to him, know about him as much as you can before marriage to attain a certain level of comfort so that you don’t feel like sleeping with a complete stranger. It will save you from sharing some unpleasant moments together.

• Don’t submit to his desires every time, make him crave for your love a little (hehe). People don’t value the things that come easily to them. Having some wildness in your married life is totally recommended.

• Don’t go with a predisposition that his parents are your only enemy left on earth to disrespect you. Respect them, accept them, love them like you own parents till your own respect is not put at stake.

• Be prepared for compromises. Compromise is a fundamental aspect of healthy marriage.You both would have to make some major compromises to create a happy family out of two individuals.

• It is actually common that you both would fight but don’t let those fights reach next morning. Sleep off with peaceful mind sorting out the differences in between.

• Short trips are much more essential then long vacations to increase love bonding. Weekend-long drives and going out for dinner is something that will add moments of happiness in your marriage.

• Leave aside your ego and anger for a few days. after a few initial anxious and complicated days life would eventually get smooth between both of you as with time you will understand your partner better.

• Marriage is not without trust. Don’t get insecure by his female friends as you would not want him to be with your male friends. Growing together by keeping their individuality at risk will not do any good to your marriage.

• However big fight you guys may have don’t talk about separation or divorce because such words create a permanent damage in relationships. Always try to compromise and settle out for things with mutual consent.

• Family that eats together, stays together. In day to day life when everyone is busy, sharing the meal together is the only time when people get to spend some little time together. Eat together to bond better (at least in evening).

• Interference of any third person un your personal space can take a toll on your beautiful bond. Never allow any third person to interfere between you two. make it a rule that third person is strictly prohibited.

• Little moments add spark in your married life. Enjoy small moments together either going out for a picnic or watching a show together. don’t wait for big achievements.

• Always respect him and give him importance when he is with your friends or relatives because you expect a similar behavior from him as well. You also want your partner to pamper you in front of your friends.

• Work and career are really important in this age. Don’t interfere in his career and don’t let him interfere in your career but that doesn’t mean you won’t ask for his/her advice before making any significant decision regarding your career.

• Don’t compare him with your father, brother, friend or ex, let your man be unique as there is something unique in every individual. Love him with all his flaws and positives.