“Great Relationships seem to come out from Strongest Friendships”. This phrase is indeed true. When we talk about what is the basic reason for sovereign the happy marriage? Getting a best friend in a soulmate is an ultimate answer of most of the couples. You may have got many friends in life but getting a true best friend in your partner is a heavenly blessing for a couple as a relationship is a combination of extreme unconditional love, care, commitment, trust, sacrifice and respect for each other and it becomes very easy when you tend to sacrifice or compromise for your best friend. Being in a relationship as a couple there are so many things or signs which will state you if you have found a best friend in your partner.
• You can be yourself around them. You can say anything to them and can do whatever you want to do without fear of restrictions. When you are best friend with your partner, you feel secure enough to be completely yourself which ultimately brings you closer.
• You want to tell them everything first. Whether the thing is important or not. You just want to share with your partner. Whether it is about mundane things which happen in your day to day like you have broken your nail or get hitted with a chair, you pick up your phone to let them know the minute details knowing the fact they don’t take it as a boredom.
• Your partner is your laughing bag. You laugh a lot with them with an open heart. Your sense of humor matches up to them and you end up hurting your stomach with giggles and endless laughter. Your partner acknowledges your witty humor and appreciates it.
• Your choices become one. You like the same things. Same food, same movies or you just want to see the life with their eyes. If your partner like any boring show or possess a fondness for any particular brand, you start appreciating that brand within no time. If your partner shares a soft corner for pets, you tend to build a soft place for them as well with time.
• What are your definition of having a date with your spouse? Do you think going out for the movie or having a meal in a restaurant where violins are playing is an idea of a perfect date? No. Your dates are less clingy When you become best friends with your partner. Cleaning a floor or listening to a soft romantic song sitting beside each other on sofa can be your date.
•You can fight with your partner without freaking out. You fight with your best friend for the last slice of pizza knowing the fact it won’t lead up to arising any conflict between you both. This can be the case with your partner cum best friend. You can snatch tv remote from their hand and can willingly watch your favorite serial without worrying that your partner will become rebellious.
•You’re down to do anything for your partner. What happens when you start dating someone? You leave your important stuff aside just to make them feel worthy but in marriage, these kind of things take a backseat. You can read your favorite novel or newspaper or do gardening when they are around you. The contentment that you have someone in whatever you do is what makes your marriage relationship healthy.
• You know the little thing about each other. Like your guys best friends or girls best friends, your spouse knows the tiny details about you like you prefer chai with parantha in the morning or like to eat a lot of stuff when you are tensed. knowing the little details and appreciating them makes you love your soulmate even more.
• You want to do nice things for them. Appreciation is the key to a perfect married life. When you love someone and that person becomes your best friend results into making things easier for you. You learn to cook pav bhaji for them even you don’t know the lip-smacking recipe of the delicious snack or you search for their favorite chocolates in the market as these are not easily available at every grocery store.
• You choose them over anything else. When it comes to make a choice between your partner and anyone else, you give preference to your partner as he/she is your priority. You have to spend your entire life together. You don’t face any problem in sacrificing your happiness for doing the things they like.