Undeniably, Marriage is a beautiful transition of being single to remain committed with the person you love the most and want to spend your life with. It is safe to say that marriage is not only about enjoying the golden moments and sharing happiness, dreams, and vision together, it’s also about facing the difficulties, struggles, troubles, challenges, and worries to an extent when you tend to think that your amazing bond is fading slowly and your marriage is falling apart and losing its charm. It is a wake-up call that you need to work on your marriage; though not by putting efforts but lovingly and patiently.
Have a look at the article and follow the solutions provided here at Mangal Parinay to rejuvenate your marriage. These key points will also be helpful for all those couples who are soon stepping into a new life with their respective partners.
• Choose to Communicate
It’s natural to go through hardships in a relationship. Every individual has a different point of view on a respective issue which is when a couple bound to disagree on small things. Maybe you both agree on the same thing but still, there are few differences which make you grow apart from your partner.
Don’t get disheartened. It’s only you and your partner which can save that eternal bond of love through communication. Don’t just sit with your partner and listen to respond in return. Sit to understand.
Choose the surrounding where you can converse peacefully without any interference and opinion of the third person. Look out for the place where your better half doesn’t feel distracted by ongoing things externally.
• Keep a check on your tone
Needless to say, raising your voice while arguing to sort out things won’t help. It will only wreck your bond and marriage. We all know, even a simple discussion can turn in to fight if you become unaware how calmly you need to act. Don’t lose your temper even if your partner fumes in anger. Remember, It’s not always wise to have a ‘tit for tat’ attitude.
To make your relationship smooth, it is not necessary that you lash out all the harsh words when your partner is already making up his/her mind to value your advice.
• Accept the flaws and weaknesses
It’s obvious that perfection is a myth. No one, I say no one is perfect in this world. It’s about how you see a person. You always have two options with you. Appreciate the good in a person or go for noticing the flaws and have a complaining attitude. Before you choose the second option, I must tell you acknowledging flaws in a negative manner make your marriage brittle.
When you marry an individual, you marry his/her flaws, shortcomings, and weaknesses. Learn to accept the flaws in order to cherish everything a marriage brings.
• Divide your chores and help
One of the common problems, couples (especially wives) always complains that their husbands are not cooperative. They don’t ask to be a helping hand and if go out to them for a favour in household chores. They refuse it making excuses like tired, busy, sleepy etc. It is the moment when marriage escalates to the responsibility that creates disputes in between the couple.
So, it is advisable that do help your partners. Divide your chores in accordance with your interests, the work you find interesting to do like decide who will do laundry, and who will clean.
• Stay committed
Hardships take a toll on your married life. Rifts, arguments, fights, quarrels; everything which is not healthy for a marriage deteriorates the relationship. In spite of facing the difficult times together, people decide to part ways as an only solution. Don’t forget your marriage should be your priority unless your partner is extremely violent and hits you. Be loyal to your partner as he/she is the only person who will be with you when everyone drifts away from you.