It is true,”the more you hide your feelings for someone, the more you fall for them”.Same happens when we are in love with someone. When you have a crush, sometimes your emotion can get the better of you, and you start to do things that are completely out of your character.
Therefore, today in this article we are going to tell you about the creepy things you should not do when you have a crush.
1) Avoid going to their places
This is one of the most creepy things you should not do when you have a crush. No matter how much you missing him/her, how much you want to, you need to avoid going past their home just to see if you can peep at what they might be doing. It might be possible for your crush, able to see you too; do you really want to risk being considered as a stalker just so you can get a glimpse of what they are doing? What would you say if they came out and asked what you were doing? It’s not worth thinking about!
2) Eye contact
Eyes are the soul of your heart and hence are considered as a vital part of effective flirting, but there is definitely a point where it can become unnerving rather than exciting. Avoid staring too hard at your crush as it doesn’t seem good and then get their attention followed with breaking the contact, it will leave them wanting for more instead.
3) Reference Social media
Social media is a sure-fire way to let your crush know that you have been stalking them. Be careful about the kind of things that you choose to talk to them about. I am sure you don’t want to find yourself in a situation where you have to explain exactly why you know and how you get to know that they went for some trips with their family some years ago!
4) Be restraint
Try to show a little restraint and don’t just show up at every single social event that you know your crush is also going to attending it. Once or twice is a coincidence, but not every time this is the real case of stalking! It’s best to leave a little mystery in things; don’t just make yourself present and available at all times because the more clingy you seem to be, the less likely your crush is going to respond positively.
5) Don’t get possessive
Always remember everyone likes to be loved by someone. But if someone starts to get possessive in a relationship. Then its true essence gets spoiled. Being in a relationship and having connection with someone, especially with your crush i.e, obsessed in your head makes no sense, as getting possessive over them makes no sense when you aren’t dating. They can go out, talk with whoever they want at this point. It isn’t your place to interfere.