Marriages are the life’s most important decision. And It gets really tough when it comes to marriage, especially when it comes to arrange one when you don’t know that person!

Every girl has different expectations and it’s very hard to categorize about a specific roster of qualities. Though there is a certain aspect which a girl would perhaps expect in her future husband. So, today in this article we are going to enlist some of the qualities which a girl desire to have in her future partner. Hence As a girl, I would try to list down what girls and her family look for in a groom in Indian arranged marriage In India.

Financial Security A girl always dreamt of a man who can provide her a secured and luxury lifestyle and for this, she looks for a man who has a decent salary or financially strong. A stability need not necessarily be a govt. job or a big business but something which gives confidence to the girl which will make her trust in herself that the guy possesses the required talent to be able to chart a successful career path and make enough money to lead a settled life.

Emotional Security– It is a dream of each and every girl to marry a man who is mad about her, about her looks, her mind, the way she walks, she talks her smile, everything about her who loves her unconditionally and a man who can literally bring down the stars for her. This is true in the case of love marriage or arranged marriage.

Decent Looks– For Her You need not look like Hrithik Roshan or Varun Dhawan but having an above average looks with a decently fit body definitely helps. She wanted someone with the boyish looks and charms who can make her feel comfortable and loved.

Well Qualified– Your education definitely helps. You might not be having a great salary as of now, however, your education level (and your age), the way you talk, your career etc will give a hint on how much financially secure you would be in future and how much respect you earn in the society.

Strong Backbone – Financial stability doesn’t mean a thing if the man is timid and cannot stand up for his wife. But It’s a plus point in case of so many girls.

Easy to Converse– Even in the case of arranged marriage, you would and should get a lot of chance to have a talk with the woman you are going to marry. The girl should find you easy to approach, having a balanced mind, and easy to talk to.

Values– This is very important in the modern scenario. The number of divorced are on the rise in India and a big reason being a weak value system that many have. If you are talking with a girl who is smart, then she would definitely try to decipher your value system.