Marriage is the thread which binds two people together for an entire lifetime. To make this thread beautiful jewel of relationship, two people have to do consistent efforts to bead it with beautiful pearls named as Communication, Friendship, Laughter, Respect, Honesty, Trust, Love, Commitment, Sex, and Compatibility. Being in a married life is one of the greatest glory of life. It’s the opportunity to support one another and build your dreams together to make this life as beautiful as heaven on earth.

Communication-

Communication is the key root of any relationship to foster. communicate with your better half to accept each other’s faults, to discuss and try to resolve your issues. It is said that a real marriage requires real communication. if you hide anything with your partner than the things only get worse and you have to go through differences with your spouse. Hence you should communicate well with each another and be clear about each others’ needs as the way we communicate with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives. someone truly said communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life without it your relationship dies and has to deal with so many problems.

Trust-

A  marriage doesn’t guarantee you a Together Forever until or unless there is secrecy in your relationship. To hide something is the enemy of a beautiful relationship. Every healthy relationship is built on a foundation of honesty and trust. Believing the fact true love can happen easily but to trust someone is a hard task. Every relationship relies on the trust factor. If there is no trust in your relationship its like having a smartphone with no service, all you can do is to play games. Hence be truthful in your relationship as it takes years to build trust, seconds to break and forever to repair.

Love-

The only thing in this price tag world which is free is Love. Love, being the magical word is patient, kind, it doesn’t envy, or boast. It is not proud, not rude, self-seeking, always protects, trusts, hopes, preserves, which doesn’t delight in evil, rejoices with the truth and makes any relationship beautiful and give you the feel of heaven on earth. It is an ultimate treasure which is necessary for having a successful marriage. Its true Marriage is a souvenir of love.

Respect –

Every good relationship, especially marriage, is based on respect. It’s the glue to a relationship. Always appreciate your spouse for who they are by not trying to change them into what you want them to be.Marriage is all about respect for the other person. Respect in marriage will allow the marriage to work in a healthier manner. Having respect for your partner in a marriage is to set boundaries and to ensure there’s a clear distinction between “rules of engagement”. I believe respect is an important step to living cohesively with someone who may have the same values but different methods of achieving that goal. So, give respect and take respect.

Commitment-

Commitment is something required for great marriages. Marriage doesn’t have to be for a lifetime to be considered successful or to bring happiness to the two partners. But, however long a marriage lasts it is important that the couple is committed to each other for the duration – whether that be 2 years, 10 years, or a lifetime.The lifetime commitment is what makes a marriage great. To have someone who accepts you, who has your back, who listens when you need to vent, — it’s awesome!But you can only get there if you make the lifetime commitment to always work things out. Soulmates are not found, they are created over years of going through shit together and not quitting.

Honesty-

Honesty in a marriage is so important. you can’t build a strong relationship on half truth and half lies. Be honest towards your partner all the times to make your relationship strong. Honesty is always the best policy. It connects the real you with your partner, not with the mask.

Laughter-

Laughter play a very important role, not only in marriage but in general life too.Laughter has very good effects on life. It is medically proved that laughter decreases stress hormones and increase immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies, thus improving your resistance to disease. Laughter triggers the release of endorphins, the bodies natural feel-good chemicals. Seeing you happy and smiling will affect your partner’s mental well being too.

Once Mark Twain said, “ The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter.”

 So, keep calm and spread laugh wherever you go.

Sex-

Sex is the silent language of love. Sex is as important for a happy, blissful married life as say a daily workout in the gym is for health and yoga/meditation is for the mind. Generally speaking love increases over a period of time in the case of arranged marriages! And that love ignites the passion in the sex life. It connects you emotionally with your spouse as well.

Friendship-

Friendship is the spark in a marriage that ensures the flame is everlasting. It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. Happy and successful marriages are based on a deep friendship, mutual respect, and enjoyment of each others company. It is said that a marriage built on friendship is a marriage built to last a lifetime.

Compatibility –

Compatibility is one of the foundations of a happy relationship. No matter whether physical, intellectual or emotional, compatibility is something every couple should have. Sure, there would be some agreements and disagreements and that’s okay. Compatibility is not a personality trait or something we’re born with; it is something we build gradually. Be compatible with your partner’s need and desire, bend somewhere if needed to live a peaceful married life.

Hence try to apply all the rules of marriage essentials which will be proved helpful for both of you. as there is no successful and happy relationship without communication, No love without respect and no reason to continue without trust. Hence Share each and every essential trait with your beloved spouse as the only goal of marriage is not to think alike but to think together, live together and enjoy every bit of life.