India is a land of festivals, where every festival is being celebrated with full harmony. There are many Indian festivals and celebrations, the most exciting one is The Dusshera or Vijaya Dashmi. Today here on the Occasion of Vijaya Dashmi we are going to bring you some invaluable love and life lessons that every newlywed bride learn from the lives of immortal feminine ideal Devi Sita. Modern-day wives can really take a cue from the Devi Sita Of Ramayana. Sitayah Charitam Mahat, Devi Sita is the wife of Maryada Purushottam Lord Rama. Sita, the ideal women and a role model to the whole lot of women in the present world who are doing some crazy things in the name of feminism. She is a personification of feminine, the kindness, patience, love, dedication towards her husband are the qualities which make her stand out.
Sitayah Charitam Mahat, Devi Sita is the wife of Maryada Purushottam Lord Rama. Sita, the ideal women and a role model to the whole lot of women in the present world who are doing some crazy things in the name of feminism. She is a personification of feminine, the kindness, patience, love, dedication towards her husband are the qualities which make her stand out.
She is the mythological heroine who was born to teach Stri Dharma, which revolves around the point of selfless service to the husband.Every newly wedded bride should learn the teachings from her. She is an epitome of selfless love and obedience which makes her supreme lord herself.
Unlike, today’s women, Sita is the one who never cribs or bicker about her miseries. She walks with her husband even when she had to accompany him in the forest without even accusing him of anything.Her sacrifice was a slap on the faces of the entire mankind.She was the great woman which any men crave for.She is a standing example for all the women who are going to start the journey of their newly married life.
1) Unimaginable will Power and Strength- She was a strong woman who never afraid to take any decision. Whether it was the tough decision of Vanvas and accompanied him without any complaint and ready to lives her glorious 14 years in the forests, or ready to give Agnipariksha, to prove her sanctity.She was the best better half who helped her husband Lord Rama in any difficult times while living in the forest. She understands her husband’s mind and hence left clues for him so that she can help him to pursue his search when Ravana abducted her. So, make partner as your strength, not your weakness.
2) Patience, Tolerance and Fearless- Though she also has a superpower, still she waited for Lord Rama to rescue her from Ashok Vatika. she is a woman with great valor in heart and hence she wanted Ravana to be defeated by her husband’s hand.She was a fearless woman who not even afraid from Ravana and tells him about her dignity. And scolds Ravana openly and humiliates him when Ravana offered her everything she desired, in exchange for marriage with him, but she didn’t budge. She certainly teaches us a great deal. Hence, rely on your partner like Lord Rama did on Sita.
3) Devotion towards her husband- Devi Sita loves her husband and ready to accompany him though she has a choice to live in the Ayodhya as a queen of the kingdom. And, chose to stay with her husband when he needed the most. If you also love your partner, then be totally devotes towards them just like Devi Sita was towards Rama. And hence, show it through your gesture.
4)Learn Stri Dharma- Her main objective was to teach Stri Dharma to the females of the entire universe, which revolves around the point of selfless service to the husband. Hence, learn to sacrifice in love and accept the concept of true love.
5) Strong believe- Sita Believes lord Rama will come to rescue him. When hanumAn offered her an escape plan to sit on his back and fly to her husband, she denied it. She said, “I don’t touch another man other than my husband. I believe in him. It is appropriate for him to come here, Kill Ravana and take me with him.” The strength of your love should be such that you are ready to move mountains. Given the chance.
6) Obedient and Ideal Wife- Devi Sita always obeyed her husband. Sita obeyed Rama’s word without asking why. He asked her to chastity, she did without declining him.
The modern world runs on the concept of instant relationships. But love doesn’t work like that. Give your relationship time and live a happy life with your partner by learning these life-changing lessons from the epic love story of Rama And Sita.
Be the Sita Of your Husband and be with him any situation of life.
Happy Vijaya Dashmi!!
Happy Dusshera!! Enjoy the festive season with your loving partner and make this moment a worth.