No matter how you handle or avoid a situation, opt to compromise or take a stand, learn to let go or try to hold on, choose to please others or consider your mental peace as a priority, there are few things and people that constantly drain your energy and affect your mental well being. Yes! There are people and things that affect your mental state or leave your heart broken. You would have to experience the worst behavior of someone no matter how much you struggle to explain the hidden emotions, you may encounter someone who is dissatisfied with your efforts, but always remember life goes on. Nothing is permanent in this world…whatever you have today is not going to be a part of your tomorrow, not even your disappointments.

Whether you are a person of any age irrespective of male or female, newly married couple, or soon to be a bride; try to implement below mentioned golden rules in your life to make your living simpler and smoother.

• Learn you don’t have to react to everything that bothers you. Forget the words but do remember the lesson it teaches you.

• Learn you don’t have to hurt those who hurt you. Rather it’s not justified when people hurt you but don’t hold the feeling of resentment.

• Learn that ultimate sign of maturity is walking away instead of hoping that person people will understand you some day.

• Learn to conserve your energy instead of reacting to every bad thing that happens to you, drains you or stops you from seeing the good things in life.

• Learn that not everyone will fall in love with you and it’s good to accept the truth that you are not going to be everyone’s cup of tea/coffee. Don’t stress.

• Learn, you can never convince someone to treat you the way you want to be treated.

• Learn, you should know the limit when you need to release someone from your cage as trying so hard to win someone you love is a waste of time and energy unless they love you back because it fills you with Nothing but Emptiness.

• Learn, it’s not compulsory to react on everything. Moreover do remember- not reacting doesn’t mean you are okay with the happenings still you choose to rise above it.

• Learn it’s not necessary to say anything on something. Sometimes silence conveys your feelings in a best way possible.

• Learn to figure out when to express your feelings on the things that upset you as it gives someone else power over your emotions.

• Learn to accept that no matter how much you love a person, there is no assurity that he/she will respect and love you back. It won’t change his/her mind. So, don’t panic much.

• Learn to tolerate that no matter you choose to react, it won’t change anything for better.