Welcome to a new milestone in your life as you are married now..!! Time from getting engaged to taking seven sacred vows with your life partner is a memorable one. Planning dates without informing your parents, going for wedding shopping, several parlour visits to attain that bridal glow, visiting boutique for fittings, significant pre-wedding rituals etc gives you a lot of stress but amidst all these things happening, one thing you get plenty in that time period is Elder’s advice for blooming a happy married life. From dur ki bua to your dadi ji everyone keeps on repeating the same sentences again and again which make you feel irritated and confused having a question in mind, “whom advice i should follow?” So, soon to be brides, don’t fret! We are giving you some experts advice that will help you to build a happy and healthy married life. Read the article carefully.

ADVICE:

• Spending a happy time with your partner needs efforts in the initial stage. Communicate to know each other well. Always share your likes, dislikes, tastes and interests, ideologies with one another. Follow one mantra: ‘Enjoy the similarities and accept the differences.’

• Never keep ANYTHING a secret from spouse whether it’s about how your mother in law treated you or you spent the extra money than the decided amount as they ought to know everything. Be best friends..share and live happy together.

• Never fight in front of children, relatives or friends because fighting is not a solution, It only distorts the environment of the house. Try to resolve issues on your own unless necessary, seek advice with the person you feel comfortable.

• Always Keep the spark of the marriage alive. This can be achieved by maintaining simple rituals like hugging each other before going to work or a small goodnight peck. These things will appear small or unnecessary first but these gestures will keep your bond strong in the long run.

• Delegate responsibilities about monetary issues, household chores, and children initially so that one partner is not unnecessarily burdened or irritated. Make clear boundaries initially itself so that there are no quarrels in future.

• NEVER indulge in infidelity. Come what may. If you are attracted to another person from opposite sex, share this with your partner and tell them why this happened, apologize and resolve the issue immediately.

• Sex life too is very important. Always discuss your desires openly without shame to ensure happiness in your marriage.

• Even after marriage go on small dates. It might sound extremely difficult but do try to make them happen as it sustains the romance in the relation.

• Keep one thing in mind as a couple. Always Maintain cordial ties with in-laws even if you dislike them so as to maintain peace and harmony.

• Appreciate the small things in one another. Say thanks when your partner Cooks a special meal, give you a head massage, do laundry when one of you returns from work tired because love is not in the magnanimous and elaborate gestures. It lies in simple things.

• Love grows with time. It becomes deeper and deeper each day. So keep saying ‘I Love You’ to each other when you feel it. Don’t shy because honestly, no one tires of hearing it.