Someone has rightly said “the first impression is the last impression. It’s the impression which lasts long. No matter how much efforts you put in the second chance that has been offered to you, first meeting or impression can never be forgotten. It becomes more important if you are going to meet your would-be bride for the first time. We all know women are hard to impress but not impossible. Knowing the fact we can’t judge what is going on in their mind, grooms can still be little careful keeping few points in mind which will definitely make them go aww with your charismatic personality and behaviour. So, all the grooms to be who are going on date for the first time, read out the article how to please your better half.
• Become a ice-breaker. Start asking a general question like what are her interests and what she wants to achieve in her life. Share some experience or any funny memory if you have any related to that. Seeing that you are enjoying her company will make her feel good. Your friendliness will definitely leave a good impression on her mind.
• Take genuine interest when you are meeting her for the first time. Listen carefully when she is telling you something about her likes, life, or dreams. Nod your head in between and make an eye contact. It’s obvious you are feeling as nervous as well but making your would-be partner comfortable is equally important.
• Don’t interrupt in between the conversation. It is necessary to make her finish her sentence or whatever she is sharing with you. Always let others finish what they are telling you without being interrupted. It will make you look patient and attentive at the same time.
• Remember to have a jibe with yourself when you are having a talk with your woman. Laughing at yourself will not only make you feel less nervous, she will too feel comfortable in your presence. Take the help of your sense of humour to please your lady love.
• Have a warm smile on your face. It will not only make you look smart but also make you more attractive. Giving off the genuine smile to your would be spouse is one of the most noticeable and pleasant things that gives joy to others as well and most importantly she will remember about you even after you leave.
• Give compliment from the heart. If you are giving her a compliment for her hairdo, beautiful eyes or for being well dressed, make sure it doesn’t make you look that you’re a big flirt. People notice if a compliment is well meant or you are only trying to please them.
• Last and least point which should be kept in mind that the entire conversation should not be self-centred. Allow her to talk and share her views. God has given us two ears and one mouth for a purpose. Use them wisely. It will definitely affect your woman. Be a little candid as well. It’s not like you don’t say anything in between. It will look like you are not paying attention.