Nervousness before the big wedding day is totally understandable.Very few people know that even a man waits for this special day with bated breathe. It’s not only the bride who feel nervous on the wedding day but also the groom as he is also going to have a big responsibility on his shoulders of being the best hubby. Only a man can understand the condition of mind and heart of a groom on his wedding day. Groom- a new chapter in a man’s life, change his life in many aspects. Though men are not good at expressing their emotions but they also get panic, feel anxiety, and stress and have few pre-wedding jitters.
Read on the list of the topmost pre-wedding jitters every groom experience:
• Will I be able to fulfil my wife’s expectations that she would have from me?
Commitment is what needed in married life. A Groom worries if he will be able to fulfil expectations of his wife be it emotionally, physically or mentally. No marriage is successful unless you understand and support your partner emotionally or mentally or share an intimate bond. Emotional connect is a must.
• Will I be the best husband?
We have seen many couples who are best pairs. A groom frets whether he will be able to blossom the relationship and handle the loopholes of a marriage like his father do. His father is a big role model for a perfect husband. It causes stress in a man if he will take care of his wife needs, demands, or wishes.
• How will I be able to make a balance between both the women?
Mother is the significant person whose place in man’s life cannot be replaced by any other person even whether she is wife. Where it is one of the main reasons for a bride to go nuts if she will be able to build a strong bond with his mother-in-law. It is also one of the reasons which a man constantly thinks about whom will he support when both the women ofanhis life having an argument or a fight.
• How will i win my wife’s heart
Where a woman has one of the greatest weapons to win her man’s heart by cooking delicious food, a man thinks of different ways how can he win his wife’s heart. He thinks of giving surprises, and gifts, and asks the tips and opinion of his female friends.
• I will not be a bachelor anymore
A wedding is a journey where you need a partner to walk along through ups and downs, good and bad, highs and lows and being there during happy and sad times. One thought which gives a man a pre-wedding jitter is that now he won’t be called as a bachelor and can’t enjoy late night outs with his friends because he has a partner who needs his attention and love.
• How will I manage the financial responsibilities
No matter if his counterpart is working, a man’s financial responsibilities increase as soon as he becomes a husband. He starts planning how will he provide financial security to his wife and future kids. He fears not losing his job and wants to achieve higher designation doing hard work.
• My routine will change
Before marriage, you were not having anyone who will ask for tv remote or will complain that she doesn’t want to watch fight but after marriage, there will be your better half who will constantly demands to watch any particular daily soup and will snatch remote from your hands. You will have to adjust everything according to your wife like outings with your friends, or devoting significant time on gadgets.