Feeling happy in a company of someone or being in love with someone is too different emotions which can confuse you to hell. No matter if both the words; like and love start with ‘L’ but we advise you to do not understand like as love because it can steal away your peace of mind leaving you in pain. There is a fine line between loving someone and liking someone which must be known before you pop out the question ” Will you marry me?” and thinking the next moment if you love him/ her or not. Read out the article to differentiate between love and like.
Young people think that they ‘love’ someone who makes them happy. But then if you really think about it, it’s only selfishness. You’re actually using the other person to make you happy. If one day you stop getting happiness from that person and start getting happiness in someone else, you leave the first person and go with the second. Then how is this love? You don’t love that person, you’re only attached and dependent on that person because you think they make you happy and makes you feel good about yourself. So, it would be better if you know about love and like in detail before deciding to get hitched with anyone else.
Love- Love is where there is no ‘you’ or ‘me’, love is where a ‘us’ exist. Love is when you don’t see them as a separate entity from me, love is when you and I are same for me. Love is when you don’t differentiate between you and her/him. Love is when you keep their happiness as a priority above yours. Love is where my happiness and your happiness, my success and your success, my sadness and your sadness, my failure and your failure, my family and your family does not exist. Everything is ours. Love is where you admire him/her for who they’re, and not how they make you feel.
Love is when they become irreplaceable as no one can ever take your place in their life. Love is where you don’t hide your flaws from them. Love is where you want to make them a better person not for you, but for their own self. Love is where you focus more on giving, rather than focusing on receiving. Love is where you give them wings to fly high in the sky. Love is not where you clip their wings putting them in a cage so they remain with you.Love is where you stop seeing them as another person and start seeing them as a part of yourself.
like-Like is when you pluck a beautiful flower and wear it in your hair. Love is when you water that flower daily so that it can blossom and live its whole life, even when it will never be of any use to you. When you like someone you feel happy in their presence. When you like someone you just can’t swim oceans to see them happy. When you like someone you can’t see according to what they like, you do them like you want but in love, it differs. When you like someone you can’t eat green chillies because that person is saying. When you like someone you can’t stay awake whole night to chat with them over the phone or if they are sitting next to you. When you like someone you won’t go out just to meet them only because they are calling you for no reason but in love you, yourself make plan knowing the fact you can’t stay out of the bed. When you like someone, you don’t see them or paint your life having them in your future. When you like someone you don’t feel the same pain in your heart when they are sad or crying.
How many of us actually think about the other person in the relationship? What does he/she want? What makes him/her happy? Be honest, how many times you do something you hate just to make your partner happy? How many times do you think about him/her even before you think about yourself? Do you really put him/her even above you or your ego? Will you stand by him/her even if they didn’t make you happy? If you don’t love your partner and living together because you like them. See them again, change your perception, and Start loving them instead to see how beautiful it is to love someone keeping their happiness, wishes, needs, demands, or pain as a priority.