Marriage not only unite you with the person you love but it solely bounds you with his family as well for the lifetime. The relationship you share with your mother-in-law is quite different from the one you possess with your beloved hubby. Mother-in-law, this name is enough for a bride to go nuts feeling nervous how will she blossom this beautiful relationship after marriage because some stereotypes in our society and saas babu drama in Indian television has given plenty of reasons to leave a bride in stress. You would relate to this article if you are a bride-to-be. We are enlisting few things which a bride want to say her mother-in-law which you too want to tell your would-be MIL.

• You will always be his first love

A child first love is always his mother. A person in whom a child confides in whenever he/she fears, to whom he/she searches for whenever having a doubt, and to whom he hugs whenever he feels lost during tough times. Now he is married, no matter how much he will love me but be assure that you will always be his first love regardless of the fact that now he has another woman in his life.

• You will always be his priority

One thing which i want to confess to you, my dear mother in law that you will always be his priority. You don’t need to believe the storyline of daily soaps bahus who want to control their beloved hubby keeping them away from his mother. Being a matured person i know how it feels when someone takes over your place, i won’t try to bridge a gap between you and him.

• I will love your son like you do

I understand you have raised him up and devoted all your years for loving and taking care of him. it is difficult for you to see that he also acknowledge another woman in his life but believe me i love your son like you love him and will never hurt him. A mother only wants her son’s happiness. Saying this phrase to her will calm down all her worries in a minute and she will proud that she choose you to be in his life.

• I Respect you for making him a good person

This is an inevitable truth that you feel lucky to find such a guy who loves you, support you, respect you and adore you for who you are and that is all because of the upbringing your mother-in-law given him that made him a good human being of great values. Express her that you truly respect your mother-in-law for raising a gift which you gonna cherish till eternity.

• Support Me and Teach Me

As a newly-wed bride, the whole family atmosphere is a bit different for me to which i have seen in my family. I continuously urge for your support to teach me how certain things must be done accordingly. I want you to be my pillar of strength when i want my own mother to be there to hold me whenever i feel completely lost or not getting how to mend up things that are gone wrong.

• Don’t expect me to be perfect

No human being in this world is perfect neither i am. No wonder i am full of flaws as well in spite of the fact i have some good qualities and positives. Please accept me as i am, like you have admired your son with his weaknesses and flaws. Everyone has some imperfections but it shape us to become better with passing time. Maybe i don’t know who to cook delicious food like you or not aware of how to buy fruits and veggies but i will learn with experience.

• Need your opinion and advice

Surely you are older than me and have gray hair because of the lessons life taught you over these years. There would be times when i feel stuck in certain situations as you have already walked in the shoes i am stepping in, i need you to guide me with everything you know is best and assure her that you constantly need your mother in law advice as you are new member in this house and don’t know about the likes and dislikes of another person.

• Have faith in me

I know you have chosen me as your son’s counterpart means you only wanted me to hold that significant place. Have faith in my good deeds. I too want to live this beautiful relation from the core of my heart knowing the fact that marriage blesses us with a partner who promises us to be there through all uncertainties and odds and one who pampers us during the hard times. I will work on my marriage like i did on the first day. Please believe keeping your doubts aside.

• There would be disagreements 

You have your beliefs and i have mine. Every relationship goes through and fosters through disagreements like it blossoms with love. We are two individual with two minds, there might be few situations when we don’t agree with each other and have a difference of opinion but that doesn’t mean i don’t respect you anymore. I will too want to resolve that issue as soon as possible and will be eager to share that bond which would be having the conflict.

• Parenting style may vary

Knowing the fact your mother in law has raised up her son with good moral values and have a unique parenting style but doesn’t mean you will in owe to that unique style. Clear her from the start that please don’t interfere when i am teaching my kids the lesson the way i want them to or even if i am not seen holding their hand during difficulties. Maybe i want something bigger and better for them and helping them to see life through broader perspective and want to make them aware life feel continuously throw stones, it’s up to them how they use those stones; to make a bridge or to build a wall.

• I love my parents unconditionally

Even after my marriage with your son, nothing will be going to keep me apart from my parents. I love my parents unconditionally and will continue loving them my entire life. Please understand that i have some responsibilities towards my parents as well. Please don’t feel bad and complain when i go to look after them and want to spend some quality time, i know my duties but have some big heart.

• Accept me as your family member

My parents have found a better match for me. They know I will be happy in the new house until my last breath. I am trying to get adjust between new family members but I too want that you take a step towards me to make me feel comfortable in new surrounding as I am also a family member of yours and like your children, I am too like your daughter.

• Give some space

Last but not the least, you all will agree that no one wants the interference of anyone who knowingly and unknowingly wants to come between the space you and your partner share. Don’t be hesitate to say to your mother-in-law that now her son is your husband as well and a matured one. Give some space to make us decisions that are good for us.