Brother-sister relationship is hard to explain. They both share an amazing bond since childhood. Teasing each other every time, making fun of each other by making silly faces, imitating words to irritate one another, and pulling each other’s leg among their friends, they both share strong bond full of love.
Every girl will agree that your brother is the one who is always there through thick and thin. You just need to call his name whenever you get into trouble. He protects you from an unnecessary problem you create for yourself and support you whenever you feel broken and he is also the one who is your partner in crime.
Though he argues with you all the time, and find excuses to fight with you and never shows his love for you, he is the one whose heart filled with a burst of emotions when you are getting married all set to leave the house. Guys will agree that you are first and best men of her life even after she will get the man of her dreams. Here are few things which a sister expects from her brother to do in her wedding.
Spend time with her
No matter how much you irritate her, knowing the truth there is little time left to spend together, your loving sister wants to spend every possible minute with you. Make sure you to manage your time accordingly amidst wedding preparations.
Accompany her to the parlor
Being a good brother, it’s your duty to accompany her each time whenever she has an appointment with the beautician. Charge your mobile’s battery. Be ready to pick her up as she can call you anytime that she has done with the parlor.
Take her to shopping places
Make up your mind before as you have to take her to different shopping places that too umpteenth time. She needs someone to go with her all the time whether she has to buy something, for dresses fitting, to collect them back from the shopping center or boutique. Prepare yourself to be a driver. *Wink*
Be there for her
No relation can match up to the bond siblings share as they have seen you grow old. They exactly know when you are happy, sad or stressed by reading your face. The wedding is an emotional time for a bride. A girl will break down many times as she has to leave her house, and her family behind and she needs her brother’s shoulder to cry her heart out while packing bags.
Feed her
Brothers! It’s an important task as well. Mark it in your diary. Her hands are decorated with intricated Mehandi design. Feed her as she can’t do it herself. Amongst all the preparations or shoppings, be there to roam around with a plate in hand so that she can’t skip a meal. Ask her if she wants to have junk food. A girl really loves her brother is pampering her.
Booking vendors
As she is occupied with so much of work already. Help her in fixing the meeting with the vendors, caterers, venue decorators, videographers, etc. Book the one she likes after discussing everything in detail. Tell the vendors everything in advance how to do you like everything to get executed.
Look after the preparations
Your sister has to perform many rituals as Indian wedding solemnized with many significant customs and traditions. She has to go to the parlor to get ready for her wedding. Look up to the preparations if the caterer is there or not, how much time a DJ or photo/videographers will take to reach to the venue or Pandit ji is arriving on time, decorators are following up the instructions or not etc.
Prepare yourself to hold Phoolon ki Chaddar
A bride-to-be will fill with joy and tears of happiness when you will walk down the aisle with her holding Phoolon ki Chaddar over her head. Spike up your hairs, wear an enticing dress to look smart to compliment your sister. Before that, escort her from the parlor once she is ready to arrive at the wedding venue.
Take care of bridesmaid
A girl really expects her brother to take care of her friends, colleagues, and bridesmaids as she won’t be able to accompany them. Ensure that they have a great time there, or if they have their tummy full as your parents are already busy attending other guests and relatives.
Handwritten letter
Your sister is special for you. Do something unique on her wedding day. Believe it or not, she would be expecting this warm gesture for you. Pen down your feelings on a paper which couldn’t able to confess. Let her know she is a part of your heart. Dedicate a song for her in your voice.
Prepare dance act
It’s a special day for her. Make it more memorable by performing a dance act on Bollywood numbers as Bollywood have numbers of songs for any relation. She would like to see you have to burn extra calories to make her feel valuable. You can ask your cousins to join you and put on a great show for her.
She is still the part of the family
Brothers! Promise your loving sister that the house is equally hers as well. Nothing is going to change after the wedding and they will share the same bond as before. Vanish off all the insecurities. Assure her that she is always welcome whether it is any moment of the day.
A bride really loves that her brother leaving no stone unturned to make her feel valuable, loved and special and wants her wedding day to be worth remembered giving her assurance that this sweet tom and jerry relationship will always be followed by heart even after the wedding ceremony. Make up your mind to fulfill all the responsibilities well as your sister wants you to do all this in her wedding.