Marriage is a beautiful start of one’s life with a respective spouse and other family members especially with the mother in law. Knowing the fact life after the marriage takes a u-turn and undergoes a major change, all the girl have taught one lesson from the childhood that you will have to compromise and adjust according to the new family. Compromises are good until you are not sacrificing with your individuality and personality. There is no harm in loving your spouse and changing yourself but it’s not right to sacrifice with your happiness and the right things. Today read out the article to know the things women should not do after tying the knot for a successful and happy married life.

• NEVER ask your husband to choose between you and his mother (the respect he has for you will go away —200% for sure). Mothers are one who has raised them and hold a significant place in their life. Like you can’t choose one between your mother and spouse, therefore don’t put him in this dilemma. It may ruin your relationship.

•There is no OSCAR FOR BEST MAID.. most importantly you are not a maid of the house so never drag yourself alone in doing all the household chores…Ask ur husband for help. There are many tasks you can’t do alone and there is nothing bad if your partner assists you.

• Stop feeling like you don’t have to look GOOD as you’re married now. Beauty is what catches the attention of everyone towards you. Every woman likes to adorn themselves for their spouse. Make yourself like a Queen as you’re his Queen.

• It is always important to Stay in Shape. Health is a priority and will remain so. Getting fat after childbirth isn’t an Excuse…Hit the Gym. You must maintain your health as becoming too fatty can adversely affect your health and you may be susceptible to diseases.

• NEVER give up your CAREER/PASSION. Being a good daughter in law, or a good wife is not synonyms to sacrifice your career. You are an individual who can take your decisions. Don’t avoid your career for a getting the tag of good bahu. Career is what lets you know your self-worth. Manage your home and work efficiently, carefully and wholeheartedly.

• Your parents have sacrificed their whole life for giving you a great upbringing. Don’t forget to visit your parents by excuses like am Busy. call them often, visit them and invite them to your place.One day you will become a parent and will realise their importance. Don’t waste time that they are also important even after your marriage and amidst responsibilities.

• Sitting, gossiping and having fun with everyone is good but never give up ME time..no matter how much occupied you are or living in a joint family, Takeout time to Read books, Dance alone, Going for long walks, Sit in balcony admiring sun…or anything you like.

• Your husband is a gift to you. DON’T BLACKMAIL your husband “You want a divorce” just to win an argument or a pointless fight. Respect your husband, listen to him, agree to him if he is correct. Don’t let your ego come in between your beautiful relationship. Blackmailing your spouse will drift you apart both physically and emotionally.

• Never use SEX as a commodity — withholding sex to “punish” or to reward him for “good” behaviour — you’re breaking your marital bond, intimacy and trust -eventually destroying your relationship. Sort out your fight by communication not offering that you will make out, talk to me please type relationship.

• Respect your husband but if he tries to control your life, make him aware of the fact that you both are individuals of different values and upbringing. There might b chances that he won’t agree with your decision. Make him understand the valid reason giving some time to think again.

• Best friends are sisters from another mother. Only because you are married don’t give you the authority to revolve your life around your husband. You should never lose contact with her. She/he is the one who knows you better and you will need her throughout your life.

• Your husband has his own social circle, friends, likes, interests and hobbies. Don’t expect him to be there with you 24×7. Give them space as long as he is managing time between office, you and for other things. But guys! That doesn’t mean you don’t spare time to spend quality time with her.

• Relatives are those who stand for you in difficult times. Don’t judge them. Everyone has their own story you might not aware of. Treat them with respect. See their positive traits and appreciate them for those.

• The last point which you should always remember to have a holy matrimony is that make it your aim that you won’t compare your life with any other couple. You might be experiencing another chapter and they are living another chapter. Stop comparing and complaining why you are not like them. But you can adapt their positive qualities in your behaviour to have a successful marriage.