Marriage is not less than a roller coaster ride for two individuals who choose to share their lives together. No matter how much you love your partner, fights and arguments are an inescapable part of a married life. Every couple argues once in a while and it’s natural to do because when you live with a person, there may be a few matters on which you don’t agree with one another or there are times when you argue with your partner over a bad habit of his/her.
Some people choose to the complaint or yell at each other while others try to solve the matter by avoiding conversation and contact but what are the end results? In either case, you end up hurting yourself or your spouse. Arguments are good as far as they are leading you to the pathway to growth and problem-solving. Otherwise, it would create differences between you and your better half and you will only regret later thinking how the equation got changed between both.
Read the article to know how to argue constructively and how to maintain peace and harmony in your beautiful married life. Follow the tips to cherish a strong emotional bond with your partner.
• Talk about your feelings
Before your hidden feelings turn into anger, have a quality talk with your partner what are you feeling or experiencing. Sometimes, arguments can be avoided if another person chooses to listen patiently and understand the feelings of significant other before explaining anything.
• Anger is destructive
Remember that anger never does any good to your relationship. Instead of blooming your lovely relationship, it kills the seeds of attachment and love from your partner’s heart. State your feelings in a polite way because sooner or later, you have to sort out the difference then Why to create them at first place?
• Never raise your voice
There is no need to yell unless your partner has a listening problem or use hearing aids. Don’t raise your voice when you are complaining. It’s a great piece of advice any matter can be resolved beautifully if you maintain the pitch of your voice while communication. Remember you are not in a battlefield. It’s your home which only requires happy memories.
• Don’t store harsh feelings
Don’t avoid your anger for so long. Don’t suppress your feelings beneath your heart because you may end up saying or doing the things you will regret later. Remember anger never fades away love..so, never get angry with the person you love.
• Never abuse
It’s not right to abuse your partner as he/she also have self-respect like you and no one wants to listen to abusive words. Never opt for verbal/physical abuse. Keep it in your partner is your family. Any kind of actions like slamming the door so hard, or breaking plates is needed to be stop.
• Take a break
Who says you need to figure out things on urgent basis? Give your partner some time to understand the situation. You..yourself take a break if you observe your partner is not getting whatever you are saying. Step out of your house or make yourself busy in the activity you like. Discuss later.
Life is short..spend it with people you love..don’t get angry…never hurt the person you love..enjoy your marital bliss to the fullest..!