Best friends are more like your other half without whom your life seems incomplete. Though you get so many relations by birth, there is that one person whom you choose to be your companion for life- ‘Sister from another mister’. That one person who is the indefinite source of your happiness, who shares your joy and console you in sorrows and in grief, who loves you unconditionally no matter how much you hurt them or make a mistake, who promise to never change no matter your hair turn grey. His/her love for you keeps nurturing your soul even if become old.

To sum up, best friend is the one who never refuses to give up on you when everyone steps back. But there are times when your behavior and words hurt your best friend who is your top priority. Sometimes, misunderstandings take a toll on your relationship. No wonder how hard you try to make up with your best friends, everything looks impossible.

It is true that changed behavior of your best friend is worst than the break-up with your boyfriend. You feel terribly lost and seems as if your lovely bond is leaving its roots when you have a huge fight or facing numerous ups and downs in your relationship that you cherish with your Best friend forever.

Now that you are guilty of your worst behavior or the words that you haven’t said at first place and want to sort things out before it gets too late to make things fine. Have a look at the article at mangal parinay to know how to make everything fine with your bestie.

• Identify the problem

Sometimes, you both fight unnecessarily without acknowledging what the actual problem is. Don’t lose your temper without listening properly. Remember, misunderstandings lead to an additional problem. Find out what is the reason for the argument.

• Talk about it

Friendship breaks when you both decide to bottle things up inside your heart rather than sharing it with your best friend. Talk whatever is causing you trouble and explain yourself patiently but don’t justify yourself as it may ruin your forever bond.

• Listen

Instead of ranting your frustration and anger and expressing how hurt you are at the moment, remember to hear your bestie as she might be going through the same hurt. She might be feeling broken more than you. To make your friendship lasts a lifetime, try to understand your best pal as she might be facing some other issues in life that’s why she is behaving like this.

• Apologize

Apologize to your best friend for the pain you have caused her. If you have said something unintentionally in the moment of anger, say sorry to make things better between both of you. You know it’s you who can save your valuable relationship because your bond with twin sister is worth than the damage.

• Have faith

Don’t fear that you will lose her or your relationship with her will change. Never forget she is your best friend for the reason. She understands you and moreover, she has also chosen you to be her best friend among millions of people. Show gratitude.

• Understand from their perspectives

Misunderstandings which are the root cause of several fights occur when you refuse to think from other’s point of you. Before you blow out your anger, step back, pause and think about how would they have been feeling or what made them say those bitter words. Always keep in mind that your best friend ( more like a sister) has best intentions for you.

• Show how important they are to you

No one is perfect and mature either. Never stop communicating or it may flourish the awkwardness between you and her. Show how much they mean to you and what place they hold in your life. Remind them that you are blessed to have her as your bestie. Show gratitude that she has chosen you to be your best pal..never take that for granted.

• Give her space

You may be impatiently waiting to build that closer bond again after the moment you have apologized. Acknowledge the fact that people are different. Although you have made sincere efforts to sort everything out, let her begin the healing process and cool down and come out from hurtful zone naturally. Keep checking them through phone calls and messages but don’t give too much space else they will get distant that you don’t care for them.

Remember, you will regret later for losing that someone special who is a treasure for you. Fight all odds together instead of fighting with each other. Learn to love, forgive, and forget. Value your relationship, grow old together…make memories..

May you set examples for your kids and everyone. Good luck for your friendship…cherish your forever person.