Here comes your first Diwali celebration after the wedding. The initial and beautiful phase has spent going on the honeymoon, weekend trips, movies, at friends and relatives home. Now the most popular have arrived, the festivals of Light, the Diwali or known as Deepawali. The festival which marks the return of Lord Rama with wife Sita and brother Laxman from Ayodhya after killing the Ravana. A newly-wed bride tasks increase when there is any occasion or a festival. The bahu of the house should do things to please mother in law along with Goddess Laxmi to fill the house with prosperity, happiness, and wealth. It is a favorable time to impress your mother-in-law if you are living with them. To be in her good books, you will have to perform all the preparations of Diwali with great care. Make sure you look up to each and every planning in a great detail. We are going to tell you few things to add moments into your relationship with in-laws.
A newly-wed bride tasks increase when there is any occasion or a festival. The bahu of the house should do things to please mother in law along with Goddess Laxmi to fill the house with prosperity, happiness, and wealth. It is a favorable time to impress your mother-in-law if you are living with them. To be in her good books, you will have to perform all the preparations of Diwali with great care. Make sure you look up to each and every planning in a great detail. We are going to tell you few things to add moments into your relationship with in-laws.
Cleaning of the house
It is your first Diwali and a great time to impress your loving mother in law as well. Say your dearest Mother in law to sit, relax and rest. Do everything by yourself. From cleaning room almirahs to kitchen cutlery and cupboard, from removing dirt from every corner of the house to washing the floor, don’t let her do any task. You can ask for suggestions like from where to start and see her feeling happy that you are valuing her opinion and not letting her do anything. Take a step and surely she will you treat you like her own daughter after this caring gesture.
Accompany her to the market
The list is prepared for what to buy as gifts for relatives and dear friends, which item is required to purchase for the house. Now lessen the burden of her by accompanying her to the market. Go shopping with her and lend the helping hand. Moreover, it will give you an ample opportunity to spend quality time with her to know her as a person and to be aware of her likes and dislikes. Ask her to go shopping with you as you want to buy a gift of her choice.
Decoration of the house
Your mother-in-law has already given you the responsibility of the home, to do things the way you like without any interference. So, harvest the fruitful chance. Be the in charge of the house for the Diwali decorations. Decorate the whole surroundings with the Diyas, candles, and flowers. Cover up the bed with the bright bedsheet, the sofa covers should be well spread, the color of curtains should go with the color of the walls to liven up the rooms.
Cook favorite dishes of everyone.
Yes! Cooking is what makes you leave a good impression in the heart of everyone including your mother-in-law. Take the help of your beloved husband in finding the favorite dishes of every family member. Every relation which you have got because of your life-partner is valuable to you. Show them that they all are important to you by making sweets and cooking delicious food items, they love to eat. Fill their appetite with love along with the other ingredients. Try the hand in something which they have never tasted before at home.
Make rangoli
Diwali preparations also include the colorful Diwali to welcome Goddess Laxmi with other deities and Lord Ganesha along with Kuber. Everyone wishes to come at the home which is clean and decorated with great planning. Make beautiful rangoli design with different colors. Maybe your mother-in-law is not in practice to do such things. She will simply love this work of yours. If you are not good in making intricate designs, buy the stencil from the market and decorate the entrance of the house.
Preparation of the puja
It’s not only the time where you have to impress your mother-in-law but have to please Goddess Laxmi to get her holy blessings, the happiness, the wealth, the prosperity for the house. The traditions, the rituals always help you to grasp the attention of the elders. Arrange the puja ingredients in advance. Pour the holy water at the place of worship. Seeing you doing the puja in a right manner is what is beneficial for you to melt the sweetness in the relationship you have with your mother in law.
So, all the bahus who read this significant article and to the people who’s sister or a dear friend recently get married and in search of the chance to impress their mother-in-law. Tell them the tips described above. Follow everything with the heart and tighten up your back to make this Diwali unforgettable and a pleasant one this year. Good luck and wishing you good fortune and happiness in your way.