Indian weddings represent the rich culture, rituals, traditions, and customs of diverse India. Known for grandeur, fun, masti, weddings have no meaning if the people who are worthy for you and are not comfortable in the wedding.
Wedding, no doubt is one of the most significant days for soon-to-be brides and grooms. They daydream about their d-day and goes in months of prepping for shopping their wedding outfits (lehenga for bride and sherwani for groom), choosing wedding venue, decor, Jaimala or the smallest of things to make their special day more meaningful for them but in all these things, many couples forget to take care of their guests who make their wedding ceremony more memorable. It’s evident that your wedding guests are simply happy to be the part of your wedding ceremony. This is the reason they manage their valuable time and reach there to give you blessings to have a happy married life.
Today, we are going to tell you what guests hate in a wedding. Read out the points mentioned to make your wedding guests comfortable and in all praise of your wedding day.
• When will the groom and baraat come? We agree that it is an important day for you and you have to look your best but it doesn’t mean that you arrive late in your own wedding making your guests waiting for you and whispering “baraat kb aayegi? Do all the fun at home, enjoy all the rituals prior to ghudchadi but keeping the time in mind.
• How much time Dulhan need to teach the wedding venue? Brides spend hours in the parlour to get that princess look on their wedding day and arrive late causing trouble for guests who are there only for her. It’s a request to all brides that reach the parlour on time or tell your makeup artist what time you need to become there so that you can free on time.
• Serve your guests the delicious and mouthwatering food. You have been to many weddings from where you call your mother or wife to cook food for you as well because you will eat once you reach home. Appoint the caterer whom services you like or you know you can trust them so that your guests don’t leave the wedding venue empty stomach.
• Pay heed to the seating arrangement. Sometimes it skips from mind amidst all the other preparations. There should be enough chairs so that your guests don’t have to stand for long hours or playing musical chairs in there head starring at everyone when will one get up from his seat. Moreover, it would be difficult for oldies to attend your wedding with happy hearts.
• Remember to insert wedding venue map with the wedding invitation. There would be many guests who were never been to that route before or some would have a rough idea about the place. So, it is a great idea to attach venue map for their convenience so that finding the destination doesn’t make them frown. Keep the signboards something like balloons with your name initials and wedding date at confusing turns which will solve the doubt.
• Parents of bride and groom who are blabbering about how much money they have spent to make wedding ceremony lavish and extraordinary. Don’t be like those people who talk about the expenses all the time irritating their guests. You have to spend as per your pocket and wish, why to praise yourself all the meanwhile making your guests think they shouldn’t have been there.
• Bad washrooms!! Yes! A big no to the wedding venue which doesn’t have proper facilities. You ensure it before that washroom should be neat and clean otherwise no one will going to remember you for lip-smacking food served or choosing amazing place unless it provides commendable facilities.
• Dj wala must play good music and tracks according to whats going on in at the venue like playing dancing song when bride walking down the aisle can ruin the entire mood and charisma of the overwhelming moment. The DJ man should be of friendly nature and play the tracks requested by guests to shake their legs on the dance floor.